When a couple gets married, they think about "putting down roots". It doesn't happen right away - but you think about it.
Joe and I were no different. 16 years ago we wanted a place to call our own. Our journey started in Winchester, VA with our first "real house" we bought (we lived in a town house first). 1/4 acre which backed up to a farm - perfect. Then after a few years, and 2 kids, the commute became difficult and it wasn't working for us.
Then, we moved to Leesburg. Honestly, we thought this was it. We custom built the house in a great neighborhood, good schools, and lots of kids. We were there awhile - and we liked it a lot - however, it wasn't what we wanted.
We started house shopping - and fell into this property. It wasn't perfect - the house is definitely 30+ years old.... and the property needed a lot of work.
However, here we are. Some days we would trade it..... but not for a long period of time I think. We like that we are here. It's opened up so many doors we never knew about or never seriously considered.
Our house is now becoming, after 5 years, a home. So we aren't just planting vegetables and raising animals, we are planting our roots and raising kids.
Many people know we are foster/adoptive parents. We are able to now open our doors to the permanency we are striving to have. This in itself is a blessing and giving kids the opportunity to share "getting dirty" with us - experiencing losses, seeing the joys in births, and so much more.
We are here........ and we are home.
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
March 16, 2011 at 8:27 PM
All kids enjoy getting dirty, maybe not at first. I'm glad to hear that you're making a difference in many childrens lives by being a foster or adoptive parent. We need a lot more people like you in this world.